Social Engineering Interviews
Interviewers never want you to fail. Nobody decides to interview someone just to setup them up to fail as it costs them time and money to search for another candidate. Yes, they will tell some people "no" due to different reasons, but the point is that they want you to succeed so that way they can stop their search and you can start solving their problems.
My advice is figure out why they are asking the question then answer the question honestly while characterizing yourself as someone who'd "save the day"
Every Question Has a Purpose
This is common sense when you think about it, but often easy to forget (and often fatal if you do) but Every Question they ask you has a purpose.
What that means is that a lot of the questions should be taken with a grain of salt. Some (if not all) of the questions are there to filter candidates.
For instance. If someone were to ask if you liked dogs... chances are they have a dog policy and are trying to filter people who like and don't like dogs. Now this is important, because if you don't like them but don't mind them that's one thing. But if you were allergic there is absolutely no reason to lie about it.
The biggest takeaway from this post is to question why they are asking a question and then provide an answer that characterizes you as someone who is willing or motivated to solve their problems while being honest.
One thing I highly believe in is you should never answer with short "yes" or "no" responses. While they are easy to say they provide no supporting information, even if you say "yes, I've done that" you didn't provide any examples of when you did that or were in that situations. And really that's what they want, they didn't want a "yes" response, they wanted an explicit example of you tackling or overcoming that problem. The same goes for "no" responses.
There is absolutely no reason to lie, but answering a question saying that you don't know the hottest new language but would love to learn and are a relatively quick learner is absolutely a better answer than simply saying "no."
Some Programmer Examples
- Do you like dealing with legacy code? - This means that they have a lot of legacy code... sample response would be "no, but I understand that all code eventually becomes legacy code and often times legacy code is where one can find all the business rules of how the company operates"
- How do you manage stress / do you get stressed easily - this means they have a stressful environment, everybody gets stressed but want they want to see is you list some good stress management techniques
I used to hate it when it was my turn to ask questions. But now I've realized that this is some of the best times to shine as a candidate, or figure out if I really don't want to be there.
Asking Good Questions
The key to asking a good questions it that it should take them a couple of seconds to think about the answer.
For instance, asking what their favorite color... while more complex than asking a "yes" "no" question is still a very simple question as most people know what they would answer immediately. It's a simple look up of personal preferences.
A good question is one that they have to step back and actually construct the answer because they have to think about it for a couple of seconds, now the difficulty in this in interviews is that it should be related to the job or company.
Usually I try to think of questions while they are talking and explaining the job, or asking questions to me (such as easy look up questions like "tell me about yourself".) But the best questions are insightful questions based off what they told me in the interview. As questions based off what they said are genuine and authentic and will get noticed as such.
Some example questions that I'd typically ask if I ran out of questions on the spot or can't think of any though are:
- Looking back at past or current employees who have all excelled at this position what are some qualities have you noticed they had? - this question is good because if you share any of the same qualities they'd start to further see you as an excellent future employee
- If the roles were reversed and you were being interviewed by me what question would you ask? and how would you respond? - this question is good because it helps you find out what sort of information that they didn't share... although sometimes they cope out and give an easy question / answer
Asking Informative Questions
This is going to be quick, but essentially if there is anything you are worried about but don't know you'd want to find that out being leaving the interview. Some places are just not a good place to be and you're doing yourself a huge favor finding that out before it's too late and you switched jobs.
There is a tact to it though, you can't simply ask "Is this a good place to work?" As they will say "no" almost instantaneously and you'll also cast doubt as yourself as a candidate in their eyes. But you can and should (if concerned) ask them what typical hours are for employees, what the management stuff of your boss will be, or even if they have free coffee or what other office perks are.
Programming Questions or Other Troublesome Questions
Talk it out, even if you don't know the answer explain that you don't know but this is what you think and why you think the answer is that.
Like the earlier question examples, you do yourself no good if you provide a simple answer "no" or "I don't know."
There is nothing wrong though with starting off with "I don't know" then following it up with giving your best guess as that shows that even if you don't know will give a stab at tackling the problem and shows that you have humility and are honest about your abilities and communication.
Remember, interviews are just as much for you as they are for them. They are trying to figure out if you'd be a good fit and good worker, and you should be trying to learn if you'd enjoy it there and if it's a good place to work.